Saying goodbye to a way of life

Photo: Wikipedia 1952

Photo: Wikipedia 1952

When the old is gone and the new comes rushing in there’s fear, excitement and tears. No one knows what to feel. Since I was a child the 411 Operators of Millington Telephone Company have been climbing the stairs to answer the calls. It has always been women. I suppose that is because of the era the business started in. The beginning was a time when women could vote but their voices were for pretty things like giving information. I remember my Aunt going to work in the 1970’s wearing what she called her uniform. It was actually very dressy clothing because the owner liked his women to be pretty. I know that sounds sexist but that’s just the way things were then. Over many years the dress code eventually evolved to logo embossed t-shirts paired with jeans. Modernization changes many things.

Millington Telephone Company

Millington Telephone Company

This small town telephone company actually began its operations in 1928 in a time before major corporations took over our country. Americans with a dream could still own their own business and be a major contributor to the local economy. The dream is dying now. Most of the long term employees have already left. Of the few that remain some of them will have to be let go. I’m afraid technology is to blame. The old ways are replaced with more efficient systems. I know it happens everywhere. The days of Mom and Pop businesses are quickly becoming a thing of the past. These things must happen for a business to remain profitable.

Tell that to the melancholy hearts. Not just to the workers who have been there for 30 years but the local people who have grown accustomed to their wake up calls from the 411 crew.  Tell it to the citizens who have always counted on hearing a familiar voice when they needed a number.  Some of these women have been doing this for so long that they have many of the business numbers memorized. You don’t have to wait for them to look them up. They just spout them off as if it were a recipe for biscuits. Yes, I’m melancholy too.

You would think it would not bother me so much since I never actually worked there. The Millington Telephone Company has been a part of my entire life though. Well, most of it. I have been walking in and out of those doors since my childhood. If it makes me sad, I can’t imagine what these women feel. It’s like losing a large piece of who you are.

The new owner is a good and well respected company with great aspirations. They have done a great job in keeping the employees that they could and assisting the ones that they could not. I think we all wish them well. Lord knows the local economy needs them.  It’s just hard to say goodbye to small town America and its small town ways.

11 thoughts on “Saying goodbye to a way of life

  1. Pamela Kauffman

    I remember reading an article in the Millington Star where you could even call and get a recipe if you wanted. I thought that was so great. I never did it but, it was great. I am sad for losing this personal touch from the telephone company and from America in general. It seems more and more we have to talk to computers instead of real people. And being from the south these computers don’t understand me so much. (lol)

  2. PPuckett

    Yes progress is sad in so many ways and we will truly miss that personal touch. These folks are all strong and they will survive but it is just so sad losing that real ” reach out and touch someone” feeling.
    We all truly lose when we don’t have that personal connection.

  3. lovinchelle

    I miss going to the old telephone office to pay our bill, I always wondered where they kept all this ladies who were operators. Years later I learned it wasn’t in that lil place at all

    1. snoogiefisk Post author

      This company was privately owned and passed down from generation to generation until it eventually sold last year. They actually did keep the operators upstairs. I never understood why they made them dress up though since they were never seen by the public.


Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s